This could casually happen when your partner goes to the bathroom, or you're watching a movie together, or for whatever reason they could briefly leave their phone and a notification pops up. A new match on a dating app? Chances are, there are secrets contained on that phone, and one of the most common phone secrets are dating apps. Masini says if you ask them about why they still have the app and they delete it immediately, they probably did actually forget to delete their profile.
But there also could be the chance that they are intentionally on dating apps, and someone you know could've spotted them on the app. If any of the above occur, have a conversation with your partner about your boundaries and priorities in the relationship.
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